if you can't fix it ,you 've got to stand it !有人把这句话译为:要么解决,要么忍受.更直白的讲是:如果你不能打败(搞定)它,你就必须忍着.
究其对Ennis影响,在打Jack的那一拳时,ENnis选择的是打败(搞定)它;而在处理与Jack的关系时,他基于对当时环境的恐惧( Jack, I don't want a be like them guys you see around sometimes. And I don't want a be dead),却选择了忍着.
Ennis, you got a problem and you got a fix it or it's gonna be with you until you're ninety and K.E.'s ninety-three. 父亲的这句话对Ennis的人生观产生深远影响,也成了他为人处世的至理名言.
顺便请教:什么叫“直人”?