被当地人询问为什么中国人吃狗肉

westlife404

今天出门，正好赶上邻居在往家里搬东西，出于礼貌，我随便搭了个手。进屋后，他邀我喝杯咖啡作为感谢，觉得正好有时间，就留下来了。

开始的时候，聊天内容很casual。只是未了，他疑惑地问我，为什么中国人喜欢吃狗肉？狗是人类的朋友啊！

在法国，狗是随处可见，不管是小型狗还是大型狗，无论身边往来多少陌生人，是完全不叫的，当你和他亲近的时候，特别是大型狗，会整个趴在你的身上，像我这么怕狗的人，在这边，抚摸大型狗是很正常的事情。

当他问我的时候，我真是一惊，第一次被人问这么严肃的话题，因为这涉及到中国形象问题，但是国人吃狗肉这是事实，我不能否认。当时顿感身上任务重大，不过我真是不知道应该怎么说，因为我也很纳闷，国人怎么会吃狗肉呢？

我是这样回答的，中国是多民族的国家，每个民族都有自己的文化特色和生活习俗，吃狗肉，只是某一个少数民族的文化和生活的特点，但并不代表中国所有的人，在中国，吃狗肉并不流行，也不常见，因为狗在我们国家群众眼里也是人类的朋友。

看他是一直点头，好像很认可的样子，不知道我这样的回答，在坛友看来恰当吗？会不会造成什么不好的影响？

任天真

不能说是“少数民族的文化和生活特点”吧，毕竟汉族人吃狗肉的也大有人在。

被问及这样的问题也确实难为你了，反正我也是不知道怎么答的。如果真的被问了，我也只能说，我不吃狗肉。不过，其实吃狗肉吃的最凶的是韩国人。

sheila.Blair

stupid question..If I said that  animals are human's friends,then whether it means human would be vegetrain?the answer is "Nope".so if u just focus on "dog",how could u get the right answer?

Actually, it's not about the fame of China.The question itself is very stupid.U can ask him the question what I mentioned before.Then watch...

任天真

原帖由 sheila.Blair 于 2009-9-1 10:28 发表
stupid question..If I said that  animals are human's friends,then whether it means human would be vegetrain?the answer is "Nope".so if u just focus on "dog",how could u get the  ...

这个狠！赞！

westlife404

原帖由 sheila.Blair 于 2009-9-1 10:28 发表
stupid question..If I said that  animals are human's friends,then whether it means human would be vegetrain?the answer is "Nope".so if u just focus on "dog",how could u get the  ...

I don't think the question is stupid. To french people dogs mean thier numbers of family. The question focus on the animal "Dog",they don't eat dog as meal. Not like pork, chicken, beef.  That's just why he asked the question. Maybe there is much better answer than mine.
I cannot see the point why u r so pissed off by the question.
I don't want to be hateful. Actually,the question u mentioned above is sort of stupid. U should be open-minded a little bit. He just don't understand why people wanna eat dog, neither do I. There are so many people out there, way to much different ways to think. U may say u think that people should eat dog as meal,it's ok, but u cannot control peole to think what u think.

westlife404

原帖由 任天真 于 2009-9-1 09:38 发表
不能说是“少数民族的文化和生活特点”吧，毕竟汉族人吃狗肉的也大有人在。

被问及这样的问题也确实难为你了，反正我也是不知道怎么答的。如果真的被问了，我也只能说，我不吃狗肉。不过，其实吃狗肉吃的最凶的 ...

对啊，这个我怎么当时没反应过来呢，我只是觉得不是所有中国人都吃，也可能是我反应过度了，考虑太多，所以就想到用“少数”的概念来表示，有，但是不多。

天使

原帖由 westlife404 于 2009-9-1 08:02 发表
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I think your answer is just perfect, with plain facts and detailed explanations as well as polite but reasonable argument
That's the best way to handle questions brought up by others with hostile intensions or simply out of their ignorance
Can't agree with you more for your opinion on the 5th floor!

westlife404

原帖由 天使 于 2009-9-1 14:47 发表

I think your answer is just perfect, with plain facts and detailed explanations as well as polite but reasonable argument
That's the best way to handle questions brought up by others with hostil ...

Thanks for your "plain facts".

中正

我是打酱油的

TonyLau

我感觉有部分西方人习惯在聊天中通过对对方之于自己喜欢事物的态度或立场来判断对方是否值得自己去交往（甚至只是交谈），这点只是以自我为中心的一个体现（或许只是交谈习惯而已），狗的问题不过是其中之一罢了，个人认为不必较真啦，不用延伸到民族形象问题。

你的回答蛮恰当的，以后可以再强势一点

sheila.Blair

but as what we all know is that french just confused about why chinese eat dogs.however,every counties have their own culture and civilization.so why they feel so shamed  or amazing for chinese to eat dogs?Just stand on his opinion to deal with this question,I just think everybody has his own world.U dont have to feel so strange and contact the whole nation.And whether has he texted the phenomenon what he mentioned?Actually it just happened in some districts in China.

alright ,I dont want to have jar with u.just let it go

chris

狗肉好吃，吃狗肉怎么了？我就爱吃，凭什么狗是人类的朋友，其他的就不是了？？

在印度，牛还被当做神的化身呢！在别的国家不是照吃不误吗？受不鸟~~

子午

北美也是不大理解这个事情，而且还略带一点儿bs，我个人感觉。
抛开跟外国人沟通和宗教信仰之类的不说，就单纯的对“吃狗肉”而言，我觉得跟吃猪肉、牛肉、鸡肉……有很大区别吗？

维也纳森林

不吃肉的飘过。。。

BbMountain

其實在哪裡都有吃狗肉的人
可能你的外國朋友受了什麽影響
覺得中國人家家戶戶都吃狗肉（挺起來真怪）
其實如果說狗是人類的朋友，其它動物就不是嗎？
我不吃狗也不吃羊，但是別人很鄙視的說，你難道不吃豬、吃牛、吃雞
他們就不是動物嗎？就不是朋友嗎？
唉，真是矛盾的問題